Common Estate Planning Mistakes to Avoid

One of the major problems that occur with preparing for one’s passing and financial distribution is that people frequently leave the matter to the very last minute and then make rushed decisions with bad information. This can cause common mistakes to occur that could be avoided with proper preparation. Every financial professional will be quick to say a good financial portfolio includes planning for one’s estate distribution after they pass, but it can frequently sound like a foreign language to others not as familiar with estate planning.



If you are able to, consider dedicating some time now to working on your legacy plan. Here are a few ways in which you can better avoid major estate planning mistakes.

1. Have a Strategy

It’s an absolute train wreck for your family and estate not to have some kind of a plan in place at all. Even a simple will is far better than nothing at all. Ignoring the matter means that your entire estate will be decided by a probate court. And that means the judge involved could transfer your assets to just about anyone who makes a good argument in the required probate hearing.1 Do everyone a favor and at least prepare a basic will designating a default beneficiary for all your assets. While many assume their spouse will take over everything, consider point two below, which is a common occurrence.

2. Think Beyond a Single Beneficiary

Don’t assume the first party designated as a beneficiary will be around by the time your estate plan takes effect. Life happens and doesn’t stay frozen in time just because an estate plan designates one specific person to be a key beneficiary. If the first person chosen is no longer available, you may want to consider naming one or two others as well. This will make it much easier for your executor to get your assets distributed properly.

3. Regularly Update Your Will, Estate Plan, or Trust

If you have a will, estate plan, or trust already, make sure it is regularly updated. Your financial situation and universe of beneficiaries are regularly changing and oftentimes growing. Big changes that should be that may require an update to your estate strategy include new children joining the family, an inheritance of assets from someone else, changing large assets such as homes and cars, and designating an inheritance of new financial accounts (bank accounts, brokerage accounts, investments etc). Not updating regularly means that when the plan is needed, it may not match or apply to extra assets gained after the fact or new beneficiaries not previously identified being left out.

4. Think About Your Own Health

People don’t think about their health when they plan an estate. Very often a surviving spouse may need health support or your own condition may trigger a disability. These translate into costs that have to be addressed for medical services. Not having a clear path for power of attorney and health directives can be big issues if someone needs to make health decisions for you. Again, plan ahead and anticipate these challenges with solutions.

5. Consider Transferring Assets as a Gift

An easy way to transfer assets early without taxes is a gift, but people hardly use it while alive. Any individual can transfer up to $15,000 without taxes on the amount or value annually to any other individual.2 This is a simple way to liquidate parts of an estate early without the transfer having to go through the estate distribution process after a person passes away. Even better, you are entirely in control of the asset and transfer as opposed to relying on an executor.

6. Choose an Executor

Choose an executor who is capable of handling the task of managing your estate, which includes a lot of paperwork and legalities. People frequently choose a sibling or a close relative to execute an estate. However, that doesn’t mean the person has the fortitude to do the job. Choose someone with the maturity and backbone who is willing to deal with the challenges involved, including appearing at hearings and fending off relatives.

  1. https://www.irs.gov/businesses/small-businesses-self-employed/deceased-taxpayers-probate-filing-estate-and-individual-returns-paying-taxes-due
  2. https://www.irs.gov/businesses/small-businesses-self-employed/frequently-asked-questions-on-gift-taxes


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Breakwater Team

At Breakwater Capital, we work with families across the United States, providing each client with a personalized experience tailored to their current circumstances, future goals, and timelines.

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